I don’t do the therapy thing. Never have. I don’t think it’s useless universally, but for me I just can’t ever conceive of talking at a stranger about my personal issues and having that help.
Now writing about my personal issues to a whole bunch of people who are more or less strangers? (no offense meant to y’all)… I suppose that’s exactly what’s about to happen here, but hey, I’m not having to pay you anything.
Anyhow, Dawn does see a therapist and said therapist said to her that on the topic of grief and loss due to death of a loved one, it can take up to six months before your mental and emotional state return to a state of normalcy. I suppose I bring this up because by the time you’re reading this, six months will have passed since my mom passed away, and here we are with our first new comic page since she went into the hospital. On the one hand, maybe that’s just coincidence, but on the other maybe it helps to have some occasion to anchor onto even if it wasn’t exactly a happy one. Humanity as a whole does have a fondness for taking days out of the calendar and giving them significance. Anything that helps keep them from just blurring together, right?
Wednesdays were one of those anchors for us, but on the whole I think taking a hiatus from the comic was the right call, and I want to thank you all again for your patience and understanding. As warned, we may not get back to our once a week schedule until after the Holidays — I mean, this whole “six months” estimate is all well and good but the reality is murkier. Our Christmas this year is going to be short a couple of very significant stockings and I suppose I’ve still got some amount of breath held in terms of seeing how that goes.
But I cracked open MS Word and got some writing done, and Dawn got some drawing done, and as a result we have a bit more story to dole out for those of you who were yearning for your Zombie Ranch fix. Your loyalty is very flattering, and though it might not exactly be an action-packed cliffhanger at the moment, I hope it feeds the need and your humble proprietors have demonstrated that in the wake of all the loss, they haven’t lost their touch.
3 thoughts on “Six months of separation.”
Evervigilant
Welcome back! I think coming back when “you” are comfortable and moving at your own pace is the best way to go. From my own personal experiences with loss all I can say is one day at a time. Losing a parent never goes fully away. I lost my father suddenly over 28 years ago and not a day goes by that I think of him. It’s not with sadness now but usually a smile that I think of him.
ConcordBob
Welcome back up on the zombie horse! As Evervigilant said, do things at the pace you are comfortable with. Expected things to be inconsistent….some good day and some rough days. Nice comic! You take it one day at a time, and we’ll take comic when they appear. Best wishes for Thanksgiving, even though it will be tinged with sadness. I’m thankful that you have each other.
Mr. Cat
I’m sorry for your loss. It’s always hard. Always. You’re loved and appreciated for what you do, as you do it, in your own time. We’re here for you. Your shamblin’ horde.
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